A lady on social media has clarified the difference between building with a man and suffering with a man, saying they’re not the same, as people tend to mix it.
She said, When a guy hustles when broke, and the Lady is broke but not hustling, and he becomes successful, the lady begins to have undue entitlement to his money, when both of them suffered separately. She added by asking a question directed to women, “Why are you not making it as he is making it?”
She continued that the only time a lady can comfortably say she was a solid help in time of hardship to the man is if she assisted financially in what pertains to the man’s life.
She said if a lady is broke and she is dating a broke guy, and she says she is suffering with him, means that the lady is saying, “The man does not deserve all the love she gives him because he is broke; rather, she is managing to accord that love to him.”
Moving to a building with a man, she revealed that a lady can build with anybody. She described building with someone as having similar goals and values with the one you love. She added that in building, the person has a direction, and the lady also has the same direction she is heading to, while joining hands with the person to encourage swift movement to the destination.
She claimed that the fact that a lady builds with someone does not mean she is suffering with the person. She continued saying that what one person does alone, both can come together to do, as two heads are better than one.
She revealed that even if both of them are millionaires, or both of them are broke, or one of them is broke, it doesn’t matter as long as both have goals, values, dreams, and visions that align and both can come together to achieve it.
The lady spoke on women who complain of men who they build with and who end up dumping them tomorrow. She said that happens because ladies are not careful of whom they want to build with.
She stressed on most people being oblivious of building when it relates to relationships, while adding that it’s not that deep but only how ladies see and consume content online.