Anthonia Umerah, a Nigerian woman, has stated that since she purchased a car, she is having trouble dating a man without one. Tickets to a music concert
In a Facebook post on Wednesday, June 18, the businesswoman revealed this, saying she’s always thinking about how to handle any problems that can arise in the relationship, particularly if the male is insecure.
She wrote, “Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car. In my head, I am usually imagining how the experience will be like. Will I be parking my car at home while we use taxi to go out on dates or will I carry my car, probably drop him at him place after the date before going home instead of the other way round and being the one driving a man.”
Abi I will carry my car key give man? See ehh, is not like there’s anything wrong about a man not having a car at the moment but, it became weird for me to date one. There’s one I met few days ago, from my observation and our conversation, the guy is okay o. His only offense was just that, he does not own a car and I felt like it was affect my steeze.
She continued, “This was previously not a problem for me at all when I didn’t have a car and I know there are woman who naturally don’t like dating men who do not own a car despite not having and it is still very VALID but my own issues about it started since I bought a car and I don’t know why.”
She also added that, “I feel like; being the one to drive a man up and down is a masculine trait and I want to be feminine
One thing that also scare me about this, is that, a lot of Nigerian men have insecurity issues.
Situation like this may bruise the ego of an insecure man and he will start telling you “is it because you have a car in every little misunderstanding.”